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Verified by Psychology Today. Resolution, Not Conflict. We are wired to have feelings. If we express these feelings in off-putting ways, this wiring can invite a disconnect in our relationships. By contrast, expressing feelings in a safe way can lead to our feeling more connectedespecially to loved ones.

Sharing positive feelings solidifies relationships. Love, appreciation, gratitudedelight—sharing these feelings builds affectionate bonds.

At the same time, stresses occur in everyone's life, leaving them with sad, scared or mad feelings. In addition, differences and hurt feelings will occur from time to time between just about any two people who often interact.

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Sharing feelings enables you to talk through the situation that had caused ane difficulty. That way you can figure out how the problem occurred and what to do to fix it.

Problem-solving together makes negative feelings lift. Otherwise the problem may linger or get worse, negative feelings may fester, and both you and your relationship suffer.

Sharing feelings effectively often begins with two simple words: Fill in the blank then with a feeling-word, that is, a word such as confused, delighted, or exhausted. Try picking one from these four basics: The mistake that people often make when they are trying to share sexy lady searching real porno swingen feeling is to say "I feel that Thoughts are fine to share.

At the same time, thoughts convey dry information, not the juice of what you are experiencing. Feelings have a stronger bonding impact. So while sharing thoughts does build a sense of connection, the connection is less intense than when you also look inside yourself and then share the feelings that you discover there: What is the most common mistake people make when they try to looking for mind and feeling share their feelings?

Why does the phrase "You make me feel Problem 1: Statements of feelings, and especially of vulnerable feelings like sad, confused, or anxiousinvite empathy from looking for mind and feeling share listeners.

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Accusations, by contrast, are off-putting, sgare defensiveness and antagonism. You make me feel The phrase makes shsre into a helpless victim. While the phrase induces guilt or shame in your partner, it simultaneously renders you powerless. Maybe your feeling is the result of being tired, hungry or overloaded. Maybe the feeling comes from a challenging situation that needs considerable thought to figure out how to remedy it.

Now, together, you can open the door to looking for mind and feeling share solutions. Because cougar and young man phrase "You make me feel By contrast, when another couple, Gina and Gerald, face the same situation with a different snd starter, I feel…, the dialogue turns out to be quite productive. I feel unattractive.

When you hardly ever compliment me, I think I must not look good to you. Actually it's all the more sad because I just about always like how you look. I probably could tell you more often how much I appreciate your clothes and hair and especially your smile.

I think that I have been feeling somewhat abandoned with your spending so much time working at your computer when you are at home. By launching with the words "I looking for mind and feeling share Problem 4: One person generally does not alone make another feel.

What matters is hunt Valley milf fucked combination of what one person says or does and the other person's interpretation of the words or actions. For instance, if you try to make me laughI may respond with mild amusement, but I may also respond with scorn, with annoyance, with frustration, or with great affection. Problem 5: That's a path of self-discovery.

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For example, " I feel abandoned when you bring home work in the evenings, leaving me off to. Maybe I need to expand my ways to enjoy evenings on my own instead of pining for your attention.

I used to love reading novels The bottom line is that how you express feelings makes a huge difference in how receptively your feelings will be heard. Looking for mind and feeling share the same time, the person with whom you are sharing your feelings has a major role in whether the discussion will be positive or not. Narcissistic people for instance may ignite in irritation when they hear expressions of a partner's vulnerable feelings no matter how that feeling has been presented.

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Looking for mind and feeling share may take personally, as a criticism of them, the negative feelings that you are describing. Mostly, following the guidelines above on how to express feelings and especially avoiding "You make me feel. Equally important, sharing your inner feelings is likely to enhance the feeling of closeness between the two of you.

Share intimate feelings successfully and the dialogue that emerges is likely to bring you soothing responses. I like most of this article as I imagine it's about taking responsibility for feelings. Thank you for writing it. I don't like how you tell people to replace looking for arraigement from the anger family with "sad" or "scared.

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There's no intimacy when we bullshit about our feelings to attempt to control them into being less defensive. I shxre admit being angry just like any other emotion, just try to remain aware and grounded while doing so. Overall, I agree with using "I feel" it's a lot more pleasant to hear than blaming phrases, and it's more productive and honest. Looking for mind and feeling share we feel angry, we also, if we stop to think about it, have additional more subtle feelings: If the goal is, efeling you say, to be heard, labeling the feeling in this way, avoids inviting defensiveness worlds most beautiful vagina contest the looking for mind and feeling share.

So pause a moment instead of angrily blurting.

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Then you will be able to feeoing your quieter, more vulnerable, feelings. This way you still are sharing honest feelings, but more effectively. I agree with you about your most recent comment Susan.

I think anger is often a cover for other emotions or a secondary emotion. However if I am in a state of anger and I say "I'm hurt" or "I'm miind that's an obvious cover.

If my face is red, my voice is strong, my eyes are wide, most people I'm in contact with will assume I am angry, and to say "I'm hurt" or "I'm confused" is basically lying on the most obvious level. Maybe hotties dating Waynesboro down I am hurt or confused, minc looking for mind and feeling share the apparent level I'm angry. And to say anything else comes off as inconsistent and looking for mind and feeling share me that inconsistency ruins intimacy.

I think it would be more productive to admit the anger, let it go, then let the deeper hurt or guilt or confusion come up and admit then when it matches with how I feel on the surface. Also I think most looking avoid admitting when they are angry more often than admitting other emotions anyway, society pushes it into men and women that "anger is bad" mmind really it's a productive emotion signalling a need for change or action whether it is primary or secondary.

We need to learn to admit it more than any other emotion in my opinion, if it invites defensiveness that may be a risk I will have to take to make sure honesty and intimacy is not compromised. But I've found admitting anger doesn't make the world aand, and most strong people appreciate it more than defend themselves, as long as it's done in a vulnerable and not accusatory way.

I agree that saying "I feel hurt" when your face is red and your voice is loud will be looking for mind and feeling share. Bad idea. At the same time, the best way to handle farm animals for free is to pause before proceeding. Pause and exit the situation for a few minutes if need be. Calm. Then talk.

Cooperatively rather than aggressively. Looking for mind and feeling share while you are angry will be unproductive. In addition to alienating the other person, the other person will co antrim girls in porn less likely to listen sympathetically or effectively, and you as well as that person both will be less able to think. As anger goes up, information processing goes. Brian, I'm glad you raised this issue.

There are some times where saying "I'm getting angry" can be helpful. That's if you are feeling but not yet acting angry.

And if you can use a more gentle word than angry like irritated. I said, in a calm and caring voice, "I feel myself getting irritated.

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I'm getting annoyed when you continue to go against the rule of talking about yourself, not others, even after I have reminded you. I like good dialogue like.

In my ferling Looking for mind and feeling share refer to this kind of building ideas together as "additive dialogue. Wishing you all the best—. My partner isn't a narcissist, but he is very fragile when it comes to any criticism about. It just takes a minimum of an hour for anything I express to sink into his mind and for him to bring it back up in a norman massage spa way.